Many people look for happiness. You may try to fill your life with things you think will make you happy: a fulfilling job with good pay, a large friend group or travel opportunities. Despite this, you may feel like your friends or coworkers are much happier than you.

When talking about how we feel, we often think happiness and joy are the same. However, happiness and joy stem from different experiences. For example, watching a movie at the theatre might make you happy. It provides short-term, personal comfort. Joy has a closer connection with long-term wellbeing as it involves interaction and purpose. For example, if you started volunteering at a seniors’ centre or writing in a gratitude journal, you may feel joy. Seeking joy over happiness can help you feel more satisfied because it is purposeful.

The benefits of finding joy

Dissatisfaction in life and ongoing stress can have a negative impact on your mental health. According to the Canadian Mental Health Association, poor mental health can lead to chronic physical health conditions. Pursuing joy is an ideal way to care for your mental health.

Research shows that people who pursue joy display more resilience to stress and trauma, have more friends and social support, have stronger immune systems and are physically healthier. Building relationships, helping communities and connecting with others improves our wellbeing on many levels.

Creating moments of joy

Finding joy doesn’t need to cost money. While donating money to charity or surprising a friend with flowers are options, there are many ways to find joy. Some options include living mindfully, spending time building valuable relationships, being a mentor or role model, or volunteering with local organizations.

Inspire moments of joy with the following:

Pause and reflect on how you create joy in your life. Write down what you’re grateful for and highlight meaningful connections in your life. Find charities or organizations you can support in your community. There are countless ways to improve your wellbeing. Make joy a habit by thinking of 1 simple act you can do daily to spark positive feelings. It might be as easy as thanking a friend.

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